Radio Silence

This is a more recent date, actually my first NYC date! We messaged back and forth a bunch (also on an app unfortunately), he was super nice and we had mutual interests, he went to a good school, has a good job, and did what a guy is supposed to do, and actually asked me out and made the plan well in advance of the date!

We were planning on meeting at the Winslow because it was in my neighborhood (his choice, so brownie points already). I actually hate gin, but I wasn't going to tell him that. While I was walking there he pulled an audible and texted me to see if I was cool with going to the Belfry, across the street. The place was so cute, all candle lit, and there was this cute little jazz band playing. The date lasted for like 2 hours and was great! We had so much in common, we actually vacationed our entire lives in the same little beach town in South Carolina.

We hugged goodbye and then about an hour later I texted him just saying thank you again and I had a great time. He responded saying he had a great time too and asked if I would be interested in getting together again? I said yes for sure! Because I would, he seemed great and I had a great time! And now, radio silence! So weird. Not sure if he really didn't want to go out again but wasn't sure what else to say...? No idea, but it's been almost 3 weeks and nothing.

[Story shared February 2020]